Imam Ahmed Shehab, a former President of Um-Al-Qurra Islamic School who was a candidate for Mayor of Toronto in 2003, calls on Muslim husbands to adhere to the Islamic ethics and to be gentle with their wives. He advised them to avoid bullying their wives or beating them up with baseball bats, sticks or belts warning that it may lead their wives to leave Islam and convert to Christianity. In this regard see also “Canada’s top Imam explains Quranic verse on wife beating” (click HERE).
The video was uploaded to YouTube on February 24, 2017 with the following title “She is leaving ISLAM – Shaikh Ahmad Shehab. He is beating up his wife to leaving the FAITH” and a request “Please share this video and the blessings.”
The following is the transcription of Shehab’s video:
May the peace, mercy, and blessings of Allah be upon you. Welcome to another episode of “On the Go” with today’s terrible story. A person called me saying that his wife wants to leave Islam and become Christian.
So I told: Well, there’s lots of goodness in the Christian people and Allah doesn’t need us and Islam is not short of numbers.
But basically while you’re saying that, – are you a person who’s treating her good? Are you a person who was really taking care of her? Most likely you are a person who pushed her to that, a person who are bullying her and beating her up, where we forgot what the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessing be upon him, said: Be gentle, be delicate with the vase, the lady, means a vase, and the vase you put something beautiful like roses. The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessing be upon him, said: You are indeed generous when your are generous with them.
So therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, we have to realize that some of these tools of bullying, some of our brothers that are using as a baseball bat or a stick or a belt to whip his wife or using her as a punching bag, and then later you say that she’s going to leave Islam. Well, you left humanity and you left the Islamic ethics when you’re treating her like that.
And there’s so much of goodness in the Christian ethics and so much of goodness in Judaism ethics and so much of goodness in the Christian and Muslim ethics, but when we strip ourselves out of these ethics we should no longer wonder if your spouse is leaving whatever she is leaving, because you pushed her to that. You stripped her of her humanity and integrity.
So therefore, we have to realize that we are not innocent when it comes to a person backfiring or a person really doing things that super weird or super strange or something not normal for us to hear or something for us we think it’s a big deal that, you know, somebody no longer practicing Islam. Well, we see some of our brothers and sisters, there are praying May Allah help us to pray and to practice our prayers, May Allah help us to pray and to practice our Islamic ethics.
But when you see a person who’s really praying but totally against the ethics and the teaching of Islam, then wonder no longer that the other half of you really backfiring and turning into person that me and you never expected to hear things from them or certain moves from them.
So therefore just stop pointing the finger at her and remember when you’re using the stick when you’re bullying when you’re beating up you’re a wife and you are using her as a punching bag and cursing her and degrading her, realize that there is a price for that. And there is Allah Glorified and Exalted be He, is watching us. So watch yourself, may Allah help us to deal in a good manners. Another episode of On the Go. May the peace, mercy, and blessings of Allah be upon you.
Background information of Imam Ahmed Shehab
Ahmed Shehab commends Trudeau for joining Muslims in religious rituals (click HERE)
Ahmed Shehab congratulates new PM Justin Trudeau (click HERE)
- Ahmed Shehab: Muslims should follow the way of Prophet Mohammed who carried out jihad during Ramadan (click HERE)
- Ahmed Shihab: Apologizing over Muhammad’s cartoons is not enough; cartoonists should repent and become Muslims (click HERE)
- Ahmed Shehab: “Canada, One Day a Muslim Country!” (click HERE)
- Ahmed Shihab: Yusuf al-Qaradawi is “our beloved Sheikh” (click HERE)